BY: Sierra Kennedy
Published 2 weeks ago
Erik Shoji, captain of the U.S. men’s national volleyball team and a three-time Olympian, has publicly come out as queer, sharing a powerful message during a Trump-era Pride Month. In a heartfelt video on TikTok and Instagram, the Hawaii-born libero opened up about self-acceptance and the importance of representation at the highest level of sport.
Shoji started his video by saying, “I am here to tell the world today that I am queer.”
He added, “It feels scary, but freeing at the same time,” and shared his journey toward self-love: “Personal acceptance takes a while. For me, it took a long time, and I’m working through that still every day… given who I am and the platform that I have this is my moment.”
Shoji continued: “I think I’m stronger, more confident, and more sure of myself than I’ve ever been,” and addressed his supporters directly: “I think this is part of who I am and that if they loved me before, they’ll love me after.”
A Wave of Support
Support for Shoji flooded in almost immediately. USA Volleyball shared, “Proud of you, Erik. Your courage, authenticity, and leadership on and off the court continue to inspire us all! Thank you for being you. We’re honored to stand with you, always.” Volleyball Nations League and Volleyball World USA echoed similar sentiments, writing, “We’re always with you, Erik.”
Fellow players, including Cody Kessel, Merrick Henry, Kelsey Cook, Justine Wong-Orantes, Jordan Larson, and Zehra Gunes, filled his comment sections with love. Canadian Olympian Justin Lui told Outsports, “It’s a big step” for visibility in volleyball.
Why This Moment Matters
Shoji’s coming-out moment is especially significant in team sports, where few male athletes feel safe to be open about their sexuality. As a respected leader and veteran of the sport, Shoji’s decision to live his truth sends a powerful message to LGBTQIA+ athletes everywhere.
Shoji noted that the volleyball community has been “so open and accepting” of diverse identities, which helped give him the confidence to share publicly.
On and Off the Court
Born in Honolulu in 1989, Shoji grew up in a volleyball family — his father, Dave, was a longtime coach at the University of Hawaii, and his brother, Kawika, also played internationally. At Stanford University, Shoji became the all-time leader in career digs and helped the U.S. national team secure bronze medals at the 2016 and 2024 Olympics. His pro career includes championships with top European clubs like Berlin Recycling Volleys and ZASKA K?dzierzyn-Ko?le.
By coming out, Shoji reinforces his identity as an elite athlete and a proud queer man — confident, authentic, and ready to inspire.
A New Chapter for LGBTQIA+ Athletes
Shoji’s announcement offers hope for more visibility and inclusion in sports. As he said, “If they loved me before, that they’ll love me after.” His bravery and the overwhelming support from the volleyball world make this a landmark moment for queer athletes everywhere.
Does Erik Shoji’s story inspire you? Share your favorite Shoji moment or tell us how his courage has impacted you in the comments.
