After over 10 years together, Jesse Metcalfe and Cara Santana have split.
A source tells PEOPLE that the Desperate Housewives actor and the actress-fashion blogger went their separate ways three weeks ago.
A rep for Santana tells PEOPLE, “Cara is not going to comment and asks that everyone please respect her privacy at this time.”
News of their split comes days after Metcalfe, 41, was photographed getting cozy with a woman at a bar in Sherman Oaks, California, over the weekend.
In photos obtained by Daily Mail, Metcalfe was captured with his arms wrapped around a blonde woman and appeared to kiss her cheek. Earlier that same day, Metcalfe was photographed leaving a lunch hand-in-hand with Hungarian model Livia Pillmann, the outlet reported.
Metcalfe and Santana, 35, who have been in a relationship for more than 10 years, got engaged in August 2016.
According to sources close to Cara, she had “no idea” they were broken up when the pictures surfaced.
“She was wearing her ring yesterday. She had no idea things weren’t fine until she saw the photos online today. I promise they never broke up until today.”
The sources say Jesse is a “cheater.” Yikes.