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Ask B. Scott: ‘Am I Over My Best Friend?’

Ask B. Scott: ‘Am I Over My Best Friend?’

Dear B. Scott, I love my best friend to death, but she’s getting on my nerves. The crazy thing about it, is she hasn’t really done anything to me. Just certain things about her are really starting to irk my nerves. It’s to the point where I don’t always answer her phone calls or respond to her texts. We’ve been ... Read More »

Ask B. Scott: ‘She’s Pregnant By Another Guy’

Ask B. Scott: ‘She’s Pregnant By Another Guy’

Dear B. Scott: My live-in girlfriend is pregnant, but the baby isn’t mine. We split up about six months ago but she still lives with me because she’s in between jobs and is trying to get her life together. Everything’s fine, but since we’ve been “on a break” she hooked up with her ex-boyfriend and now she’s four months pregnant ... Read More »

Ask B. Scott: ‘I’m Biracial and Offended’

Ask B. Scott: ‘I’m Biracial and Offended’

Dear B. Scott, I’m a biracial woman (Black/White) and I’m soon to be married to my fiancée. We’ve been together two years and he proposed over the Christmas holiday. I’m so happy to have found such a loving, caring, Black man, but some of the comments he makes regarding race and White people really offend me. I know, I’m perceived ... Read More »

Ask B. Scott: ‘My Boyfriend Is Giving Me the Silent Treatment!’

Ask B. Scott: ‘My Boyfriend Is Giving Me the Silent Treatment!’

Dear B. Scott, I’m having trouble talking to my boyfriend. Our relationship is fine, but ever since things haven’t been right with his job he’s become hard to talk to. He’s not mean or aggressive, but distant and depressed acting. Every time I ask him what’s wrong, he says he’s fine and that he just needs his space, but we’ve ... Read More »

Ask B. Scott: ‘My Friend’s A Debbie Downer!’

Ask B. Scott: ‘My Friend’s A Debbie Downer!’

Dear B. Scott, What do you do when your friend isn’t happy for you? I don’t think she’s jealous, she’s never been the jealous time. It’s just that whenever I have some exciting news to share or whenever I seem really happy, she ALWAYS does something or says something negative. For example, I’ve been out of work for a few ... Read More »

Ask B. Scott: I’m (Still) a Virgin, Help!

Ask B. Scott: I’m (Still) a Virgin, Help!

Hello, Here are the basics: I’m 23, a virgin, and I’m waiting until marriage. While its been a trying task and I’ve definitely had moments of self reflection where I’ve questioned if its still something that I want and I always conclude that it is. The problem now is that being abstinent in a society where sex is shoved down ... Read More »

Ask B. Scott: Is It JUST Computer Love?

Ask B. Scott: Is It JUST Computer Love?

Dear B.Scott, I met someone via an online dating website two months ago. After one conversation of 4 hours, he purchased a plane ticket to fly and see me two months later. During the two months, we spoke on the phone multiple times a day, Skyped on occasion (he even had me video chat with his mother), and somehow fell ... Read More »

Ask B. Scott: My Sister’s a Bad Mother

Ask B. Scott: My Sister’s a Bad Mother

Dear B. Scott, My older sister had a baby three years ago and he’s the cutest little thing ever. I love when he comes to visit and play with his auntie, but there are some things that bother me when he does. He’s always hungry, his clothes are never clean, and he never has what he needs. I end up ... Read More »

Ask B. Scott: ‘I Hate My Husbands Family!’

Ask B. Scott: ‘I Hate My Husbands Family!’

Dear B. Scott, I’ve been married for a year and I have a loving, wonderful, and caring husband. We don’t have any children, but we plan on it. Since this last holiday season we haven’t been seeing eye-to-eye. His family and I don’t get along. Well, I don’t care for his family and his family’s made it known that they ... Read More »

Ask B. Scott: ‘Is He A Rebound?’

Ask B. Scott: ‘Is He A Rebound?’

Dear B. Scott, I recently got out of a 8 month relationship last October. The breakup was pretty bad and left me devastated. Since the breakup, I rekindled a friendship I had with this guy I’ve known for a few years. We spent almost every day together between Thanksgiving & Christmas, only separating to be with our families. I feel ... Read More »