Hello to all my dear love muffins! Below is the response from yours truly to this week’s Ask B. Scott. Enjoy, and please share your thoughts! Remember to join our community and post your burning questions for me to answer. xoxo

Question:
Hey, B.Scott! I was in a serious long distance relationship for about two and a half years with this guy. He decided to break up with me because he didn’t want to be part of the ”gay” scene anymore, and it really confused me for awhile. I didn’t fully understand why all of sudden he broke things off after two years of commitment. I found out that a month after the break up, he messed around with a guy. Now that really confused me a whole lot, and didn’t know whether to get crazy or to keep my cool – but I kept my cool. Right now he has a ”girlfriend.” Him having a girlfriend doesn’t bother me – what bothers me is that his ”girl” doesn’t know his past (me) and how he isn’t totally upfront with her about his sexuality.

Can a man really change his sexual orientation just because he really feels the urge to change? What I’m trying to understand is why do I still love him? The emotion isn’t as strong as before but it’s still there. It’s just so confusing to me and I know your the perfect person to answer these kinds of questions.

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Hello to all my dear love muffins! Below is the response from yours truly to this week’s Ask B. Scott. Enjoy, and please share your thoughts! Remember to join our community and post your burning questions for me to answer. You know I give good advice! xoxo Sidebar: Don’t you just love the two sets of hairy legs above? (lol)

Question:

Hey B:
How do you know if you are truly over someone you are in love with? I’m currently in a relationship with a guy that I love a lot – he’s the sweetest guy, super nice, all my friends like him, and we get along as if we were the best of friends. However, when it comes to intimacy, it’s just not there for me. I mean don’t get me wrong, I can get off with him by him just being there, but for the most part I would rather take care of “business” myself. We haven’t had intercourse yet so we’ve just been messing around – not to mention I’ve slept around on him a couple times. The fact remains that I love him very much and he is an important part of my life.

Do you think I need someone who I have more sexual chemistry with so I’m not always looking elsewhere, and constantly flirting? Fyi, I work in a gay bar which makes resisting temptation that much hard.

Thanks,
Marcus

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Love muffins, I’ve added the April Submissions Discussion Forum to the Community. Please make sure you submit your questions by Sunday. Your question, if selected, will be featured with my response on the main page of the website the following week. Go ahead, don’t be shy! You know you have topics you’re dying to bring up, and I’m here to help!

xoxo

Hello to all my dear love muffins! Below is the response from yours truly to this week’s Ask B. Scott. Enjoy, and please share your thoughts! Remember to join our community and post your burning questions for me to answer. You know I give good advice! xoxo

Question:

B,

I’ve noticed that you have great skin. How do you control your razor bumps? What’s your secret to smooth, kissable skin? Any tips us girls can use for our bikini lines?

Thanks,
Donalee

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Hello to all my love muffins. Below is the response from yours truly to this week’s Ask B. Scott. Enjoy, and please share your thoughts! xoxo

Question:

B,

Is there anything about yourself that you’re insecure about?

Kellita

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Hey, love muffins! Below is my response to this week’s Ask B Scott – I apologize for not posting this yesterday!

Question:

B Scott,

What would you say to someone who feels like school is really overrated? I am so close to the finish line, but I feel like it’s getting in the way of me pursing my dreams. Things are really taking off with my poetry career, I have this book coming out, I’m performing everywhere, and what hurts me the most is that when I want to write, I have to study or write a paper. It’s really bothering me, and I’m trying not to have my grades suffer because I’ve worked very hard to get my GPA where it is.

I’m trying to hold on and get my degree because my mom, as a single parent, put in a lot of hours working to support me and made sacrifices for me to stay in school. I’m struggling with that feeling that comes with knowing where your destiny is, when you find your true passion in life, and that urge to pursue your true calling. I’m sure that’s something you can attest to now as you’re living your dreams out each day. I get down when I think about how much time I still have time left in school while wanting to be immersed in the poetry scene. It’s frustrating. I need some advice.

Tanesha

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