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Dear B. Scott,

ok so i have this friend who introduced me to a guy in the hopes that we’d hit it off. For what ever reason me and the guy didn’t click 100%, but there was still some chemistry. He was a sweet guy and I appreciated his conversation but some how we lost touch. (here come the dilemma) A few months would pass and I get a call from my friend telling me how she went to see the guy and how she was torn because she likes him but he was in a relationship. So i came right out and asked “did yall mess around” and because she is my girl, she told the truth and said Yes. Right then and there I couldnt help but feel some type of way, almost like I’ve been backstabbed. The way she talked about him made her sound like she was really crushin on him. Now i know this is my girl and boys come and go but i was peeved x100.

My train of though was, if she liked him she should have kept him to herself and not try to play mother love or match maker. I love her and wouldnt let an issue like this cause the demise of our friendship, but am i wrong for feeling some type of way? She doesnt know how i feel because i didnt tell her, instead i played the shoulder to cry on as she went on and on about show she wishes they can be together, but they cant. Im my head all i could think was ” you cock hungry whore, who know no boundries”, i know its wrong but i was smiling at her pain almost, thats the spite in me.

again i love her like i love my jimmy choos but am i allowed to be upset and jealous almost. furthermore should i tell her how i feel or keep it to myself?.

xoxo love muffin.

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Dear B,

I was in a 6 year relationship with a wonderful man until it was ended because he went out of state for college…that was 2 years ago. I tried to get on with my life and try to get back into the dating scene when I met someone who woo’d me and wow’d me right into the bed only to leave me months later. I became pregnant with this guy’s kid and he basically bailed out on me…I’m getting to the point bare with me love

While I was in the hospital giving birth, my boyfriend for 6 years came to visit me and stayed by my side the majority of the night and when he left, he hugged me and kissed me on the cheek…I SO didn’t want to let go… where as the baby’s daddy (father isn’t the term I want to use…shows too much respect) came to see the baby the day before discharge and was only there for an hour before coming up with some ” I need to go check on my mom” excuse. It hurt my feelings a bit because he’s lied to me before…now this.

My situation is, since the visit to the hospital, my old feelings for my ex is starting to resurface and I find myself looking at old high school photos and longing to get back together with him. I would love to pursue it, but I don’t want him to think I’m some desperate woman who wants him to play the role of the father figure for the moment. I know that right now, my main focus should be on my baby and not trying to satisfy my own needs (sorry for sounding selfish) Seeing the fact that It was he that broke up with me, I didn’t want to come to him but have him approach me (again, I didn’t want him to think I was desperate)…does that make sense?

Any advice would be appreciated

~J

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Dear B. Scott,

My best friend and I started dating back in December and just recently broke up but honestly he was a better friend than boyfriend. Now he wants to go back to being BFFs, but when we hang out things are kind of weird, we really don’t know how to act around each other anymore, our conversations are super short, and he doesn’t really act the same! What should I do? Work it out? Stop talking to him all together? I’m so lost with this one!

Thanks!
Ja’Lisa

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Hey B.

I have a question dealing with family. Recently I’ve been feeling a lot of tension between me and my mom. It’s like we’ve seperated ever since my parents have seperated. I’ve noticed that she pays more attention to my sister than she does to me. Makes me feel like she doesn’t care about me at all. Everytime I try to talk to her about it, she shuts me down. And immediately brings up all of my flaws and failures. I feel like she’s been treating me this way recently because I look like my dad, and I act so much like him and she hates it.

My question is: what should I do? Should I just let this problem go and ignore it? Or should I keep trying to talk to her? If so, how can I get her to listen without her getting upset and yelling at me.

Thanks,
Gina

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Hey B,

Ok so here how it goes. I used to go with this one dude who we been talking since Oct of ‘06. Ok in 2007 we had a little baby girl but we lost her a month later. I always made a promise to myself that I would prove a lot of broken up parents that we will last forever regardless if we lost our child. Well at my old job, this one guy started working there and at first we hated each other with a passion but we started to get closer to each after i called him one day crying cause me and my boyfriend (at the time) got in a argument. Now in our arguments, we always seem to belittle each other as much as we could can so the other would stop talking but i always seem to lose. So one day me and my friend from work went to one of his friends house for his B-day and we had a little to smoke and drink. A little after midnight i took him home and he was a little drunk. We started talking about a lot of stuff and next thing i know hes giving me a shoulder massage and kissing on my neck. I didn’t resist that until i thought to myself that i already have a boyfriend so i was quick to jump in my car and leave. After that night, the guy i used to work with start talking like on boyfriend girl friend status. I started slowly hanging with him more and hanging wit my boyfriend (at the time) a whole lot less. Afterwards it got to the point where we were claiming each other and were secretly dating. When my boyfriend (at the time) found out he wanted me 2 make a major decision either to stay with him or go with the co worker. I did break up with him so i could date the co worker, which we still are together now. Now here’s my question. My ex and me always seemed to argue about any and everything regardless of what it is. And he didn’t have any kind of job whatsoever so i had to support him. I let him use my car, get access to my bank account pay his bills so on and so forth. Well my boyfriend now, when i got fired he did everything and still is trying to support both me and him even though he gets paid a little $200 a week. Before we were official he took care of me like his wife. Even though me and my ex did have a child together but lost her did i make a better decision leaving my baby’s father for my current boyfriend now?

Love much,
Yung A.

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Hey, B.

I have a significant other, I guess you could call him. We’re not dating, but we both love each other. We’re not together because he lives in Michigan now and I live in New Jersey. We don’t want to hold each other back if something else were to come along and have resentments.

I’m moving there in 3 months for school to be near him. The only problem is, he’s bisexual and hasn’t really explored the part of him that likes guys. He really wants to and I don’t have a problem with that. But I don’t want to leave my whole life behind just to get hurt in the end. But at the same time, I don’t want to always look back and wonder ‘what if.’

Do I move there and hope that things will work out and that he doesn’t end up getting a boyfriend, or do I just try to forget about him and move on? I love him more than anything and I’d do anything for him, but I’m just torn. I know you can’t make a decision for me, but some advice would be nice.

Carolyn

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