July 27, 2009 Ask B. Scott: Why is my mother trying to control my life?

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Dear B. Scott,

I have a problem with my mother. I’m grown but I’m still living with my mother since I am still in college and finishing up. But I’m really fed up with her because it seems she is trying to control my life! She picks a part my wardrobe, and buys me what she feels I should wear. And when I refuse she throws a fit. She continuously criticizes my driving, my cooking, and thinks that proves to her that I’m not ready to move out on my own. She feels she should be in charge of my money and what I do with it. And she even got into the habit of monitoring what I say to my own friends, even when it has nothing to do with her! She constantly has a problem with where I’m going and thinks everything I do is against her. She’s very sensitive. But I’m grown, too grown. Now, I tried to talk to her and explain that I am grown, but she throws in my face that I am not grown until I move out of the house! I know I am not in the circumstance to move. I’m working part time and going to school. But I’m tired of this bs from her. I don’t want to hurt her feelings, but I’m not a child anymore, and I feel I deserve more trust and respect. How should I present this to her? What should I do?

A loving love muffin,
all grown up daughter

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July 20, 2009 Ask B. Scott: Am I wasting my time?

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Dear B. Scott,

I’ve have been dating this guy for about 4 months now and he still has not told me how he feels about me (I made the first move). The problem is I really like this guy very much and although it sounds cliche he is not like any guy that I have dated. He is completely transparent and he is honest and respectful. At this point I usually walk on the guy because to me no guy is worth the trouble of not knowing whether or not he like me. He had his heart broken a year ago by his ex but is that any excuse for him not to know how he feels about me?

Sincerely,

Your love muffin

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July 15, 2009 Ask B. Scott: Should I stay with my boyfriend who’s going to jail?

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Dear B. Scott,

I just recently found out that my boyfriend is going to jail for 18 months. We “talked” for about a year, began dating in March of 2009, had to take a break due to a situation we had no control over, and began dating again in May. Though we have been through a lot, we’ve always been there for each other and I think I may be falling in love with him, but I’m not to sure how to tell and I’m not to sure how to explain to him how I feel. I am only seventeen, turning eighteen in March, but he means so much to me. Should I let him go or stand by his side through it all?

Sincerely,
Your love muffin

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July 7, 2009 Ask B. Scott: I feel like my boyfriend of 3 years is holding me back. Should I leave or stay?

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Dear B. Scott,

I’ve been dating my boyfriend for 3 years now and I’ve come to a crossroads in my relationship and I don’t know what to do. You see, I am about to finish college in about a year and I am ready to start my life. I want to go to graduate school, possibly move out of the state, get married in a few years and maybe even have a child in a few years. The problem is my boyfriend is not at the same point as I am. He is 2 years older than I am and he dropped out of college to pursue a career as a comedian, but he hasn’t really gotten too far. I want to stick by him, but he’s not even taking major steps to pursue his career, for example, we live in Pittsburgh and it is not a hot spot for entertainment so he needs to move to NYC or LA, but he won’t even secure a good enough job to save up money so that he can move.

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July 1, 2009 Ask B. Scott: Should I still love my ex-boo who just lied about taking his fling on an exotic vacation?

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Dear B. Scott,

My ex-boyfriend took his new fling to the Cayman Islands. I asked him about her and he lied to me. We spent the weekend together and had sex. When I went back to school he acted like nothing ever happened and I found pictures of them two on the beach plastered all over Facebook. What should I do because I still love him?

Lost in Love

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June 22, 2009 Ask B. Scott- Should I pursue a guy who only flirts with me if no one else is around?

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Hey B.

What should I DO? Here’s the story.

Ok when I first started my job in Nov., there was a worker there that caught my eye. That’s all he did, I thought he was cute. I didn’t think anything else of it. As the months flew by I found the 2 of us doing a lot of flirting with each other. I remember his first comment towards me. He said “your hair looks nice, it looks good on you.” I was like thank you. Then he went on and on about his hair and how it grows and started talking about his facial hair and stuff. Another time he was bringing things from the store’s big warehouse into my department’s warehouse and he was like “hey wassup baby?” Of course I blushed and smiled. So during those times I was asking myself…”is he? is isn’t he?” Does he mess around? But I never got my answer. Shortly after that, we all found out a new store was opening and applied for it. He and I are now at the new store.

Since we’ve been at the new store, I’ve learned a little more about him. He has a girlfriend at home and a baby on the way. I see him more and have a lot more alone time with him. He’s been offering to treat me to lunch, wanting me to take my lunch with him, and gets upset if I took my lunch before him or if I’m about to leave. Then this one time I was going to the break room and he was coming from the warehouse with a dolly and he looked at the camera to see if it was on us (and it wasn’t) then he looked at me and blew me a kiss and smiled! I smiled, blushed and nodded at him. Then he went on to finish what he was doing. All that makes me wonder, is he flirting? Is he curious?

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