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Dear B. Scott.

I’m with a great guy. He’s respectful, patient, thoughtful, patient, kind and patient. He’s got me by 7yrs and he’s pretty much gotten into older person chill mode. I’m social, he’s really not. I like to get my diva on and get out, but he’s not always up to accompany me which bums me out. When I glam up, I do it for me and for him. He says his mind just isn’t always on chasing after me like the typical male and I’ve all but fussed him out over it. My friends applaud that we’ve lasted this long, but I understand that nobody is perfect, so work is needed for a relationship to last. Yet after over a year, I’m wondering if our differences could drive a wedge between us. I have faith, cause anybody with his patience is a damn good find. I want this to work, but can being on two social and sexual pages be too much difference for one cohesive union? I love him dearly, he gets me even if he doesn’t agree with me. I know I happened across a great love in him, but I’m tired of denying myself the little fun I’d like to have just cause he’s acting like he’s over the hill already! Make it work or call it done?

Sincerely,
Your love muffin

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So many of us know this situation all too well, and know how difficult it can be to gauge if the guy you’re into is diggin’ you back. We’re all too familiar with those post-date conversations on the phone reliving every detail asking, “Do you think he’s feelin’ me?” Well, there are ways to tell but we’re often too wrapped up in the moment to read the signs! Deep breathing is a must before, during and after your date to remain composed and alert! Otherwise, you’ll get lost in the flutter of your feelings when you should be thinking, men are thinkers … not feelers. While he may be feeling you, you’ll have to read the signs! But be cool, he may not show all the signs in one night, however, if you know what to look for you’ll notice over time. Now, as a rule, body language speaks louder than words so pay attention to less of what he says and more of what his body is saying! Take a look at these five tips to help you recognize his body talk. CONTINUE READING

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Dear B. Scott,

I’ve been seeing this guy for about three months on and off. We really care about each other, but we tend to get into arguments a lot. Throughout the three months, he has slowly opened up and told me things about his past. His step father was an abusive drug addict; he had to drop out of high school to help raise his God children after their mother was murdered, and so many other horrible things. Because of everything he went through as a child, he has tremendous anger problems, and he snaps very easy about little things.

I have been blessed to live a pretty care free life, and have not gone through anything compared to what he has gone through. I have my education both college and starting grad school soon, a good job, a nice place to live, etc. We are so vastly different in every since of the word, and my friends and family already think that I am way too good for him, but despite his anger issues, I love him. My question is, should I take the risk and really try to pursue a real relationship with him knowing that it will probably be very difficult?

Thanks so much!!
One of your many devoted Love muffins

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Dear B. Scott,

I wanted to know if I ever meant anything to my ex of 2 1/2 years. We were high school sweet hearts and broke up while in college. We somewhat broke up on bad terms. The reason I’m asking is because we were very serious (I’m talkin’ tattoo serious!… him not me lol ) and he moved on extremely fast! He’s already telling his new girl he loves her and basically doing all the things he use to do with me, with her. We have broken up for about 5/6 months now. I expect him to move on don’t get me wrong… but “I love you”!!! C’mon that’s a little much. I’m well aware that he might have been seeing her while we were together in college ( I know a whole other issue) and that’s why he has moved on so fast. The fact that he is able to move on so fast makes me feel like I never meant anything to him. So B. Scott did I ever mean anything to him?

Sincerely,
Your love muffin

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Dear B. Scott,

When you are treated like a jump off after a year and you are starting to feel that way is it worth it to stay?

Sincerely,
Your love muffin

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Dear B. Scott,

First thing I wanna say is, you are an inspiration and I think you are GORGEOUS! My question is, Ive been with the father of my children for quite sometime, I really do care about him, but im just not in love with him anymore. I feel so bad b/c I know he loves me and for quite sometime, I have been dating other guys online, now no sex or anything like that but there have been a few prospects and im trying to see whats up, possibly meet, I know, it’s so wrong, everytime I realize this I break it off with the guy I have been talking to and like, just to continue to stay miserable. I feel afraid because if i leave the guy im with, I keep thinking about karma and how it may be a big mistake. And I do not wanna cheat. I’m not saying that just talking to guys online is right, but I do have integrity and i won’t bed another man until I know if it’s the right thing to do. I have children and i just find it so difficult to leave someone I have been with all this time, changing things for them by leaving their father, not cool, their happiness comes first, he’s a good man and an excellent father! I just can’t do it B! Any advice would be highly appreciated, Thank you so much!! Luv ya B!

Sincerely,
Your love muffin

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