July 1, 2009 Ask B. Scott: Should I still love my ex-boo who just lied about taking his fling on an exotic vacation?

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Dear B. Scott,

My ex-boyfriend took his new fling to the Cayman Islands. I asked him about her and he lied to me. We spent the weekend together and had sex. When I went back to school he acted like nothing ever happened and I found pictures of them two on the beach plastered all over Facebook. What should I do because I still love him?

Lost in Love

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What He Wore: B. Scott at BET Awards!

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B. Scott attended the BET Awards Late Night After Party on Sunday night rocking a fabulous printed D&G button-up shirt with white cuffs ($315) and a pair of white high-waist D&G pants ($390), both from their Spring 2009 collection. He paired his black and white fit with a D&G Gypsy Necklace ($499), a cute Fall 2005 Prada Bag ($1499), and 6inch Pleaser Kiss Platform Stilettos ($41.60).

Lawrence Davis – Hair
Antonio Maximo (Maxi) – Makeup
Ja’Maal Buster – Eyelashes

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June 22, 2009 Ask B. Scott- Should I pursue a guy who only flirts with me if no one else is around?

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Hey B.

What should I DO? Here’s the story.

Ok when I first started my job in Nov., there was a worker there that caught my eye. That’s all he did, I thought he was cute. I didn’t think anything else of it. As the months flew by I found the 2 of us doing a lot of flirting with each other. I remember his first comment towards me. He said “your hair looks nice, it looks good on you.” I was like thank you. Then he went on and on about his hair and how it grows and started talking about his facial hair and stuff. Another time he was bringing things from the store’s big warehouse into my department’s warehouse and he was like “hey wassup baby?” Of course I blushed and smiled. So during those times I was asking myself…”is he? is isn’t he?” Does he mess around? But I never got my answer. Shortly after that, we all found out a new store was opening and applied for it. He and I are now at the new store.

Since we’ve been at the new store, I’ve learned a little more about him. He has a girlfriend at home and a baby on the way. I see him more and have a lot more alone time with him. He’s been offering to treat me to lunch, wanting me to take my lunch with him, and gets upset if I took my lunch before him or if I’m about to leave. Then this one time I was going to the break room and he was coming from the warehouse with a dolly and he looked at the camera to see if it was on us (and it wasn’t) then he looked at me and blew me a kiss and smiled! I smiled, blushed and nodded at him. Then he went on to finish what he was doing. All that makes me wonder, is he flirting? Is he curious?

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June 17, 2009 Ask B. Scott – Can I be upset if my BFF is in love with my former Crush?

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Dear B. Scott,

ok so i have this friend who introduced me to a guy in the hopes that we’d hit it off. For what ever reason me and the guy didn’t click 100%, but there was still some chemistry. He was a sweet guy and I appreciated his conversation but some how we lost touch. (here come the dilemma) A few months would pass and I get a call from my friend telling me how she went to see the guy and how she was torn because she likes him but he was in a relationship. So i came right out and asked “did yall mess around” and because she is my girl, she told the truth and said Yes. Right then and there I couldnt help but feel some type of way, almost like I’ve been backstabbed. The way she talked about him made her sound like she was really crushin on him. Now i know this is my girl and boys come and go but i was peeved x100.

My train of though was, if she liked him she should have kept him to herself and not try to play mother love or match maker. I love her and wouldnt let an issue like this cause the demise of our friendship, but am i wrong for feeling some type of way? She doesnt know how i feel because i didnt tell her, instead i played the shoulder to cry on as she went on and on about show she wishes they can be together, but they cant. Im my head all i could think was ” you cock hungry whore, who know no boundries”, i know its wrong but i was smiling at her pain almost, thats the spite in me.

again i love her like i love my jimmy choos but am i allowed to be upset and jealous almost. furthermore should i tell her how i feel or keep it to myself?.

xoxo love muffin.

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June 11, 2009 Love Muffin Video Response: “Diva” Freestyle

Check out this adorable love muffin doing her very own version of my “Diva” freestyle that I debuted on my Youtube channel a couple of days ago! In case you missed it I have posted my “Diva” freestyle video below. Many thanks to BeyonceWorld who recently featured the video on their website. Love muffins please continue to do video responses to my Youtube videos because it’s a great way for me to get you know you better and I really do appreciate them.

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June 8, 2009 Ask B. Scott: How do I get my ex back now that I have a baby by another man?

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Dear B,

I was in a 6 year relationship with a wonderful man until it was ended because he went out of state for college…that was 2 years ago. I tried to get on with my life and try to get back into the dating scene when I met someone who woo’d me and wow’d me right into the bed only to leave me months later. I became pregnant with this guy’s kid and he basically bailed out on me…I’m getting to the point bare with me love :)

While I was in the hospital giving birth, my boyfriend for 6 years came to visit me and stayed by my side the majority of the night and when he left, he hugged me and kissed me on the cheek…I SO didn’t want to let go… where as the baby’s daddy (father isn’t the term I want to use…shows too much respect) came to see the baby the day before discharge and was only there for an hour before coming up with some ” I need to go check on my mom” excuse. It hurt my feelings a bit because he’s lied to me before…now this.

My situation is, since the visit to the hospital, my old feelings for my ex is starting to resurface and I find myself looking at old high school photos and longing to get back together with him. I would love to pursue it, but I don’t want him to think I’m some desperate woman who wants him to play the role of the father figure for the moment. I know that right now, my main focus should be on my baby and not trying to satisfy my own needs (sorry for sounding selfish) Seeing the fact that It was he that broke up with me, I didn’t want to come to him but have him approach me (again, I didn’t want him to think I was desperate)…does that make sense?

Any advice would be appreciated :)

~J

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June 1, 2009 Ask B. Scott – How do we go back to being just best friends?

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Question:

Dear B. Scott,

My best friend and I started dating back in December and just recently broke up but honestly he was a better friend than boyfriend. Now he wants to go back to being BFFs, but when we hang out things are kind of weird, we really don’t know how to act around each other anymore, our conversations are super short, and he doesn’t really act the same! What should I do? Work it out? Stop talking to him all together? I’m so lost with this one!

Thanks!
Ja’Lisa

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