Hey love muffins! Today we’re going to kick things up a notch! Of course, it’s that time of year when, in most places, the weather changes, the holidays come around and folks start to boo up and hibernate! Hibernation is a real fancy term for sleeping, but why do that when you can just as easily busy yourself lovin’ on your platinum love muffin? Oh yeah, y’all know what I’m talking about: doing the grown folks.

As a rule, sex with the same person can get boring and dull if you don’t do the things that will keep things fresh! So in light of the holiday and having a few extra days to spend with your boo it’s time to turn the heat up, not just in the kitchen, but in the bedroom…but the kitchen works too! I’ve got 10 tips to add some spice to your love, and as promised, I have the second five! Take a look and try something new!

Play hard to get – well, kind of. This is when you make the first move. You lean into him and kiss him hard and aggressively and pull away form him. He’ll be wondering why you stopped, but before he can say anything kiss him harder and press your body against him, then pull away again. You have to make it ravenous, grab at his neck and snatch at the collar of his shirt but remember to pull away! This way, he’ll be so turn on by your passive aggressive play, he’ll have to have his way with you … no questions asked!

Get a lil messy - oh the things you can do with ice and candle wax! The hot and cold contrast does such amazing trickery effects to the body! Lay your man down and slide a cube of ice down his chest and abs. If you want to spice things up bit, moisten the cube by licking it first. Then you trace the ice trail with your mouth and blow until dry. Repeat this until the skin is obviously chilled. Drip the candle wax down his chilled area and watch him squirm! Do make sure he’s dry before you drip the candle wax!

Sexy strip tease - This will be funny if you start out with a regular everyday sweatsuit. Tell him to sit down and put on some sexy music. He’ll think you’re joking because of your not-so-impressive appearance but make sure you have on the sexiest underwear set you own underneath! Encourage him you take your sweat off and tell him to do it slowly. In between your strip down, grind on his lap to the music and rub your buns up and down his chest.

Surprise him in the shower - get naked and get in the shower with him at a time when he least expects it! Get behind him and help him wash his back, while your hands are obvious tools, rub your chest on his back while you use your hands to wash his thighs and man parts and kiss on his neck and shoulders! Shower time will no longer be the same!

Promote playtime - it’s all about the booty toot! Men cannot resist when they see your booty in the air! The key is making it obvious. Marvel at your figure in the mirror when you know he watching and pull your bottom up and sway your back and give yourself a quick smack. Make sure you let him know that you know he’s watching with a wink or something coy. But you can do this while you’re brushing your teeth at the bathroom sink, while you’re washing dishes or cooking! Don’t ever underestimate the power of the booty toot!

These tips should make loving your man spicy hot! But, I must encourage everyone to take precautionary measures and always be safe! I hope you have fun with your boos, love muffins!

Also, in case you missed Part I, click here.