Hey love muffins! As promised I am following up on a post I did about how to tell if a guy is diggin’ you, and now I’m switching it up! Ladies, believe it or not, men can be just as oblivious when it comes to being able to tell if a woman is feeling him. Men, yes, men are probably even more doubtful than woman are. Now he may not make a post date phone call to his boys asking whether or not the girl is into him, but in his head he’s thinking, “I don’t know. I mean, she did laugh at my jokes and brush against me a time or two.” Like I said, men are thinkers and he’s trying to figure out what a woman is feeling, rendering him lost in translation. Men, continue to think logically but keep in mind that women are feelers, so sentiment, passion and adoration are what she’s looking for and would love to share it all with you if you … if she’s diggin’ you. But just like women, men need to learn how to read the signs because she’s telling you everything you need to know without speaking! Body language is so powerful, love muffins! And you must learn to pay attention to it! Take a look at these five tips to help you recognize her body talk.

1.) Eye Contact - you can tell so much about how a woman feels by the way she looks at you. If she’s gazing, she’s completely feeling you and probably thinks you’re dreamy. If she’s really interested in what you have to say, then she’ll engage in your conversation. If a woman is giving you that constant eye contact as you speak and acknowledges your points with a nod or giggle, all the while maintaining that eye lock, she’s interested in what you have to say.

2.) Flirtation - women will send strong hints and a guy won’t even know it! When you’re with a woman and she crosses her legs towards him, not only is she diggin’ him, she’s more than likely physically attracted to you. If you’re across from each other at a table and she crosses her legs and swings that leg just enough to graze you, she’s inviting you to return the gesture! Reach across the table and grab her hand or give her arm a light caress, she’ll welcome your touch.

3.) Hair play - something about a woman and her hair! If a woman is constantly playing in her hair when she’s with you, it’s a nervous reaction to her wanting to look good for you! A lot of times woman will do this without thought! If you catch her twirling her hair while she’s talking to you, batting her lashes and laughing at all your jokes, then she’s fully aware of what’s she’s doing, she’s openly flirting and that’s a green light for you to make a move.

4.) She’s Inquisitive - if she wants to know more about you, then you’ve crossed the casual conversation zone. If she’s digging into your past, wanting to know what your last relationship was like and why it ended, she’s trying to gauge your relationship capabilities and you’re worth her time investment. If she wants to know about your future plans, goals and aspirations, she wants to know if yours match hers. If you’re the kind of guy who is willing to take a chance with love, she’ll probably want to see you again.

5.) Touchy Feely – if she’s leaning into you and towards you chances are she’s going to take it a step further and reach out for a caress or two at some point. She may start with a quick stroke to the face or chin and move on to the leg rubs. But don’t shy away, welcome it! And one thing a woman loves is reciprocity and she’ll appreciate a touch back! There’s is nothing wrong with loving gestures throughout the date to keep things spicy and fresh. A stale date is never fun so enjoy the moment and stop thinking so much!

These are just a few ways to tell through a woman’s body language that she’s feeling you, so pay close attention!