Comments on: Ask B. Scott: How do I get my ex back now that I have a baby by another man?

By: Lauren

Lauren — Thu, 09 Jul 2009 20:02:28 +0000

Yes, you made a big mistake sleeping with this guy! That’s so common nowadays. But you know what, it should not prevent you from going back to your ex. The only problem is the rivalry and jealousy between the men. When that baby gets older, and when you get older, the father is going to want to be around more, and he’s not going to like any strange man around his kid. I take it you’re young. Many young boys don’t commit right away. They “explore.” And the first girl that gives it, they take. So I encourage you to pursue your ex, but think about the consequences too. The heart is a treacherous thing and so is it’s desires. Also remember, your ex has changed in life from that high school boy you once knew. He stepped out into the world now, and people can change in 2 years….

By: leelee

leelee — Wed, 10 Jun 2009 02:27:19 +0000

I can actually sympathize with that situation being it’s kind of going on with me as well except he has the child and he left me. He wants to come back but being he has been gone for the last two years I have done nothing but get me and my son together and that’s all I care about right now. We are friend but we talked and we have an understanding. B.Scott is right though you have to worry about being a better self for your son and a man will come around one day when you least expect it.

By: iZeph

iZeph — Tue, 09 Jun 2009 08:17:38 +0000

Your advice was spot-on, B.

By: DOB

DOB — Tue, 09 Jun 2009 02:30:37 +0000

You gave her some great advice, B. Scott. I don’t think there’s anything more to say on the matter! Hopefully she takes heed.

By: The quiet 1

The quiet 1 — Tue, 09 Jun 2009 01:46:41 +0000

I really wish I could be the one 2 give you that “It Advice” that you so desperately deserve, but unfortunately I can’t, because I’m a in-house hermit, who’s currently going through some serious emotional issues of my own, but I just wanna address the part in your letter, where you said you were sounding selfish. Sweetheart, you are in no way, shape nor form selfish, you are human, and humans are in no way, shape nor form perfect. So please try not 2 be so hard on yourself, in time everything will be OK. I’ll be praying for you & your beatiful baby………..GOD BLESS!

By: Tay

Tay — Tue, 09 Jun 2009 01:42:11 +0000

well…i would just talk to him…express your feeling just like you did here…i think the fact that u said “I don’t want him to think I’m some desperate woman who wants him to play the role of the father figure for the moment. I know that right now” is enough…because thats usually what some women do…they see that the man they had wasnt good, so they try to go back to the good one….but in this case i know that your not….so like i said…just go to him, express your feelings…obviously he has some type of feelings for you…=]