Necole Bitchie Sums Up Exactly How I Feel!

March 26, 2008

Love muffins, again I want to thank you for your support. I want to give a super duper special shout-out to the splendiferous Necole, the blogger of NecoleBitchie.com. She wrote an amazing post today regarding my recent collaboration with Concreteloop that went to the left and is no longer in effect. As you know my weekly CL feature was pulled from their rotation due to negative homophobic comments and complaints regarding me. Necole said it best, “As much as I appreciate my readers and what they have to say, at the end of the day…this is my sh*t and I will be damned if I let some commenters dictate what I post”. Amen! Take me higher lord!

Let me tell ya’ll something. I think I better make one thing clear right now. As much as I appreciate my readers and what they have to say, at the end of the day…this is my sh*t and I will be damned if I let some commenters dictate what I post. What people don’t realize is less than 5% of the people that visit the site on a daily basis actually comment. So why would I let 5% of my readers dictate what I post on my blog. Last time I checked, people create blogs to express their personal opinions on the content they post. We are totally biased because we post on things we like and may trash things that we don’t like.

I have a special place in my heart for B. Scott. He not only has to deal with the struggles of being bi-racial but he has to deal with being an openly gay man. I’m sure he has faced many obstacles growing up but he has learned to accept himself and has taken what God gave him and ran with it. 13,000+ Subscribers on youtube? That’s big. I’m sure for every reader that CL would have lost, they would have gained 10 more.

Check out the links below to read Necole’s entire write-up and some other websites take on what occurred in case you missed it.

Last Time I checked, I run this… (Necole Bitchie)
Homophobia Rules (LOL with Darian)
Defending B. Scott & Black Gay Men (LOL with Darian)
Darian On B. Scott (Novaslim)
Video: CL blog owner fires B. Scott (Sandra Rose)
B. Scott Causes Mutiny On Concreteloop.com (Sandra Rose)

Filed Under B. Scott

12 Responses to “Necole Bitchie Sums Up Exactly How I Feel!”

Danni on March 26, 2008 at 3:47 pm #

I’m a fan of Concrete Loop’s blog, but I’m also a fan of B. Scott. That being said, I never watched the featured B.Scott videos on Concrete Loop because I would have already watched them on YouTube. I didn’t hear about the controversy until today when I was doing my routine “blog browse” after work. And I gotta say, I agree with the statements made on the Necole Bitchie website. I’m not gay, I don’t pretend that I am, and I don’t pretend that I understand why some people feel differently than what we’ve been taught is the norm. However, I just don’t understand the reasoning behind being so hateful to people just because you don’t agree with their sexual orientation. Believing that your actions are correct and someone else’s are incorrect DOES NOT give you the right to be cruel and judgmental. You do you, I do me, and we can ALL be happy. So to my favorite YouTube-r B.Scott, let all these “e-ballers” (smiles) know that they can keep it moving, and stay true to yourself. People like me respect you more than we already would just because you do!
darkskinlady on March 26, 2008 at 6:38 pm #

Thats my homegirl right there. She did you well. Everything she said was so meaningful and oh so true. I have seen her check people on her site before and Im pretty sure she would have given whoever had something to say a piece of sock-it-to-me cake and told them to kiss arse!! B Scott you are the bomb.com! continue doing what you do boo cause only you can do it as well as you do!! Oh and I got my sister hooked on you after one video!!! Ha Ha!!
ImaPerformer2 on March 26, 2008 at 9:40 pm #

Who is it? Who is it? Who is It? It’s all about you B! B.Scott I hope you read this. I think you are a great person. I love your energy and I love your Blog You always have something new and I love the fashion features you have on you page. No matter what those haters tell you just keep smiling harder and do more! Your positive message to all that negativity inspires me to be an even stronger individual. So from one gay black bi-racial brotha to another May God Bless and Protect you and yours!
MsSuga on March 27, 2008 at 4:55 am #

I never heard of B. Scott until you were featured on the Loop… and personally I’m very HAPPY that they had you on there. I sat and watched every one of your videos after that day (just may be the reason my job has now blocked you tube LOL). Necole summed it up, Angel had you on there because SHE LIKED YOU… I understand that you have to please your audience but at the end of the day all that matters is that you did something that pleased you. I never leave comments on the blogs I visit each day but I just wanted to tell you Honey keep doing what you, I Love you and all your SPLENDIFEROUS ways. Keep up the good work and great advice.
MsSuga on March 27, 2008 at 4:56 am #

*that is suppose to say Honey keep doing what you do (SORRY)
kayb on March 27, 2008 at 7:34 am #

AMEN AMEN and AMEN.
I was feeling yah movement on concreteloop its so sad that at this day in age people still discrimate….. Keep yah head up love muffins we know its just a bump in the road.
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grafittix on March 27, 2008 at 8:42 am #

Granted, the first time I saw one of your videos was on Concrete Loop. But B. Scott you are better off without them. Your world view is broader and you will ultimately be much more fulfilled and successful doing your thing beyond that very narrow audience. You have a lot to say and no one should impede you from saying it.

Angel should aspire to be more like you! I used to really enjoy Concrete Loop, but in Angel’s quest to be a media conglomerate, she is sacrificing her own vision to satisfy the masses. Look at what happens when Bryan tries to post music that isn’t the same old same old R&B ish - the posters freak out. They brought on a political commentator, who is very insightful, and the comments remain the same (these poeple don’t even know what the electoral college is and most of them are IN college!). Ignorant and pathetic, but it’s up to Angel who she chooses to serve.
Hotsauce on March 28, 2008 at 8:39 am #

Chile don’t let these internet hoes get you all riled up. believe me your offers will be bigger and better as you go along. Your success as a Gay man scares people. do what you do and anybody that has a problem with it can kiss your tootie. Concrete loop messed up big time…One person’s trash is another one treasure. keep your head up.

I didn’t really love you at first, but after spitting apple juice all over my computer with a few of your statements i can see why you have such a huge following. Keep doing what you do.
MackMama on March 29, 2008 at 8:23 pm #

I’ve said it a thousand time before, but I love you B. Although, I really enjoy CL and that’s actually how I found you, if they don’t appreciate your worth then you really don’t belong there. As others have said, bigger and better things are coming for you anyway!
lana23 on March 30, 2008 at 4:56 am #

they are so closed-minded but its all good hun because i know you gonna brush them off and keep being fab because you have lots of people out here that support you to the fullest.
cie on March 31, 2008 at 9:09 am #

I totally agree with Ms. Necole, I too had never heard of CL until you sent out a message about it, IMO you are so much better than those ignorant readers, I will never understand why people feel the need to HATE, when they simply just don’t understand, but it’s not my charge in life to figure it out!! To you my dear brotha, I’ve said it before & I’ll say it again, THEY HATE YA’ ‘CAUSE THEY AINT YA!!! Keep doin’ you & I’ll keep watching!
dr.s on April 11, 2008 at 4:57 pm #

hello b-
after seeing you on concrete loop i’ve become a huge fan! i hate what happened with those dingy ass readers-i’m sure you already know how bomb you are! i just love coming to your site!
thanks for being fabulous!!!
xoxo

ps- sorry so late!